Growing up she would always say to me, “I want to be your best friend.” As a child it was hard to wrap my mind around a mom and a friend? Friends are kids my age right? But as I grew that thought, which she continually reminded me of, crept into my thoughts. My Friend. As a teen I was really close to my Mom and regardless of my adolescent selfishness and mistakes she continually befriended me regardless. Many “age friends” came and went but there she was, my best friend. Offering comfort and encouragement, love and honesty. Teaching me selflessness and thoughtfulness, seeking the spirit and using it, positivity and rising above. And even; though I know she’ll deny it, SNEAKINESS. 🙂 Now, as grown as I can say I am, she is indeed a best friend. I still call her to shed a tear, and seek advice, to share joys and pit falls. She is still there.
So I want to honor her today on her Birthday, no I won’t tell you her age because she is ageless. Mom, thank you for all you taught me. For loving me at all times. I know that in this grand scheme of life a plan was set out for you and me. I know our friendship extends longer than we can remember and I am so grateful that a loving Heavenly Father consented to let me stay close to my best friend as I navigate this incredible life. I think he knew I’d need you. Thank you for continuing to share your life with me Mom, thank you for being the Holy woman you are. What an example of faith, positivity and happiness you have been throughout my life. Your example of steadfast living has given me and example to emulate and I am in debt to you for helping me become who I am today. Thank you for loving me, thank you for wanting to always be my best friend, you truly have always been. I love you.